Attraction is a personal choice and as the old saying suggests, “beauty is in the eye of the beholder”. Dating sites are not new to the Internet and neither are big beautiful/handsome men and women.
So what does BBW or BHM stand for and how they are different from general dating sites?
Just like there are sites for religious beliefs, geographical locations
and ethnic background, there are also sites to help full figured women
and well built men find love.
The acronym BBW and BHM stands for big beautiful women or big
handsome men. It is not uncommon to see these acronyms sprinkled through
the internet because of the popularity and interest in plus size
dating.
For years voluptuous women and well built men were considered to be
outside of the dating scene. Today with BBW dating sites those theories
have changed drastically. There are sites out there that cater to men and women of all shapes and sizes.
Although BBW dating sites cater to women and men that are heavier
set, this does not necessarily mean fat, overweight or even obese like
some may imagine. Think about women in history such as Marilyn Monroe,
many of whom still consider one of sexiest women ever. By today’s
standards Monroe was chubby, but when most people look at her they see a
healthy, happy woman.
Many people are tired of the social pressure of conforming to unhealthy dieting practices;
they just want to find love that is true, just like they are. Curves
are in and the Twiggy body style is out. Many women and men alike prefer
a little bit of meat on the bones of their mate. Since the BBW dating niche has surfaced, men and women have more
choices in regards to their partner’s physical characteristics along
with personality and other traits. Since everyone has different tastes, attractions and desires, it is
important that people have choices with online dating. It would be a
boring world if everyone liked the same color eyes, hair and body style,
thank goodness for uniqueness and choices.
Here are a few sites. Have fun and ENJOY!
Large Friends
Large Friends has put the choice in dating with their search tools
and large membership base. This makes it possible to find a plus sized
lover, mate, or friend very simply. The basic membership allows individuals to post a
profile, upload pictures and browse other member’s profiles. By
upgrading to a Gold membership, member’s can then gain access and the
ability to contact other members, use advanced search tools, and much
more.
The site has a tool that will sort profiles based on zip code, age,
gender and other features such physical characteristics. Communication
between members includes options such as email, instant messenger, and
message boards just to name a few. With numerous members it is easy to
find a lover, friend or pen pal that one has spent a life time dreaming
of.
Remember basic membership is free, but upgrading gives more tools and flexibility to members.
Membership is affordable and can be purchased for less than $30 dollars
per month. It is possible to find the plus sized lover of your dreams
and if you are in doubt just check out the success stories on the site.
There are millions of plus sized individuals in the United States and
love lives are growing as well!
Loving BBW
If those plus sized lovers get you in the mood, Loving BBW may be the site for you. With only around 2,000 members
it’s a small, but select community of individuals. The site offers a
free membership with limited access and tools. The free membership does
offer a person the opportunity to look around the site and make sure
that it is the right one before spending a dime. Members that upgrade to the Platinum membership find
that they have excellent tools such as video profiles, video chat and
much more. There is no more wondering about what the typed word
communications mean because with video chat, you are able to talk while
looking at one another.
Loving BBW also features personality matching software
giving members the most advanced tools to find their dream lover.
Members also enjoy online dating tips, advice and an easy to use site.
Profiles and chat allow just about anyone to be up and talking to others
in a matter of minutes. Convenient search tools and virtual flirts can
be used to break the ice between members and get the conversation going.
Given the small membership pool, the prices are on the steep side. Platinum membership can be purchased for $39.99 per month, with the option for 6 months at $149.94.
BB People Meet
BB People Meet claims to be the most active site for overweight singles
– and with 90,000 active users there shouldn’t be too much of a problem
finding a romantic or platonic connection here. Created by the “People
Media” group (which is owned by Match.com), they’ve been around since
2003 – which explains their sizable community.
Like most, the site offers a free (though restricted) account to
guest members, with which you are allowed to browse the site, setup your
photo ad, and even send out a few flirts. Other forms of communication,
such as email and instant chat are only available upon upgrading. You can search by state, or using the detailed search form to bring
up others who exactly match your tastes and preferences. The ZIP code
locator lets you refine users to your particular area.
The community on BB People Meet is generally open and inviting.
However there’s no (or very little) profile moderation in place, which
means that profile quality “leaves a lot to be desired”. The community
is for the most part self-policing in that suspicious profiles can be
flagged to the site’s customer support.
BBW Personals Plus
Love is in the air at BBW Personals – Not only does the site attract
plus size women there are a number of BHM (big handsome men) that are
looking for love as well. BBW Personals allows a free membership with
the option to upgrade for less than $25 per month. They allow members to
find new friends, soul mates, or Pen Pals. Now there is a site that
finally caters and specializes in those looking to love every inch of
their mate!
Members can search through profiles and narrow their searches through
a number of characteristics. No matter what is important to the person,
they can find it through this site. Essay profiles can be created to
help members post information about their likes, dislikes and goals in life. These essays can be viewed and can help find the perfect mate. Chat,
video messaging, forums and advice is also available for members, who
have upgraded. Uploading photos and creating a profile only takes a
short time and opens up many doors to finding larger lovers. Members can
also choose a six month membership for $83.94, which is a fantastic
deal!
BBW Cupid
BBW Cupid is free to join and caters to full figured women and their admirers. It is owned and run by a company called Cupid Media.
Individuals can post a profile and photos on the site before upgrading
to a Gold or Platinum membership. After upgrading there are many tools
and options provided such instant messaging, chat, favorites and a video
gallery.
The site is very easy to use and members can search
for preferences such as characteristics, occupation and other desires.
Regardless of whether a member is looking to meet a lifetime lover or to
expand their circle of friends, BBW Cupid is a great way to do so. Many
use the site to find others that are like themselves, allowing a larger
circle of friends and contacts. Membership is affordable and establishing a profile is very easy.
Members find that they can be talking with others in a matter of minutes
after signing up. There is something about plus sized love and finding
it has never been easier or more convenient.
BBW Cupid’s declares that their mission is to help plus size women
and men find love and happiness without the hassle of general dating
sites. Personalized mailboxes help members keep up with
their communication and allows them to spend less time learning the
site and more time focusing on love.
HOPE YOU ALL FIND YOUR MATCH!
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